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I miscarried at 12 weeks back in Feb. of 2005 and I heard so many people tell me that it will be okay, it will get better, everything happens for a reason...and the truth is...it will. I continually think about this baby (usually on the baby's due date), and I am now able to do it without crying. I am able to say that my miscarriage is one of the greatest losses I have suffered, without choking up. Still, I think the reason I went through all of this pain was so that I could help others. But all of this took time. I was fortunate to have support from family and friends, both women that had experienced miscarriage and some that had not. I continually talked about my pregnancy and miscarriage with people, to get to where I am at with it. I don't ever worry that I will forget about this baby, because I don't think it is possible. I was actually wondering if it was 'normal' to be content with a miscarriage, to be able to move on, to be accepting that it wasn't the right time for my baby or me. And with all of this growth and acceptance, I am now going through my second miscarriage. I found out I was pregnant on Thanksgiving and learned that I am miscarrying at 6 weeks, 4 days. During my first miscarriage I thought I could never go through it again and I didn't want to take the chance. I had decided that the chance of another miscarriage wasn't worth trying for a beautiful, healthy baby. But I did try again and I am getting through it again. I cannot say that it is easy, but it gives me strength to know that I made it through this before. I have complete faith that there will be a time where you and I can think about our babies without crying. Keep your faith and we can get through this.