I've tried going on with life, but I'm turning to help now because I can't. Little things are always in my face about it. For example, my husband and I just got back from a Christmas party and two women were pregnant there. They both were 4 wks behing where I would be. I am so tired of feeling alone. It's been so hard because my job as a hairstylist is so demanding, and my clients have tried to be so supportive of me, but they just act like now that it has been some time, everything is okay. I'm still hurting. I definietly go through the 5 steps of grieving A LOT! I'm just so down tonight. I am a mom to a 2 1/2 year old also. I'm really busy with life. I love him so much, but sometimes I feel like I'm checked out mentally in life because of so much stress. I'm totally venting right now because I'm hoping this is a safe place with you all, knowing what I'm going through.
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Miscarried Sept 06 at 12 wks. Need support
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Posts: 2 (12/16/06 22:17:51) |
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missysangelbaby |
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Posts: 3 (12/18/06 15:10:24) |
I am so sorry for your loss.I lost my baby boy sept.7 at 23 weeks and i am also a hairdresser.It is hard having to face clients that saw me preganant last time they were in and now when they come in having to tell them i lost the baby.many days i feel i'm not going to make it through the day.like today i did a little shopping for xmas and its hard to walk by kids on santas lap,babys in strollers,baby clothing stores. I completely understand how you feel and all your feelings are normal and you could be angry and sad for as long as you want. don't let anyone make you feel as if you have to put a time limit on your feelings.
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Posts: 6 (07/11/07 13:36:24) |
I also have a 2 an half year old and i miscarried is september. It is now july and i can't get over it. I went to go see my brother and his new baby boy and i just started balling because he was so beautiful and when i was pregnant it was so beautiful and my new baby would have been so beautiful. I miscarried at 8 weeks 5 days. I had a bloodclot near the baby. I am here for you. i know thats a lot to say without knowing you but we all need to stick together and help each other.
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Grr515 |
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Posts: 6 (07/11/07 13:41:00) |
I also have a 2 and half year old. I misscarried in september and it is now july and i am still not over it. It hurts so much. A couple months after i miscarried i went and saw my brothers newborn and i started bawling. He was so beautiful. Everytime i see a baby i think how beautiful they are. Then i want to cry because i was supposed to have a beautiful healthy baby. I miscarried at 8 wks. 5 days. I had a bloodclot near the baby. I am here for you. I know that sounds crazy because i don't know you but we all need to help each other through this.
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Posts: 2 (07/13/07 16:02:15) |
This is so hard to go through eh? I definielty believe that those 5 steps of greiving are so true. You keep going through the steps over and over until your heart is healed, and even then it doesn't take away the feeling of loss. I always am so grateful that I have my little guy (who is now 3) because he reminds me that I've done it once and everything turned out okay. Little things sure do trigger emotions at random times. Just today, I was in a bookstore and I read something that triggered that panic/emotional breakdown feeling. Just know you are not alone:)
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