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I am really sorry to hear about losing your baby. My husband and I just lost our first baby at 6 weeks but found out at 8 weeks. I was devastated and feel like you do. It has been a month today that the baby passed. The feelings of loneliness begin to subside and things seem to get better. It just takes time but as i have talked to other friends and family who have experienced this, they are changed and they never forget but the sadness turns into joy as we know that our babies are in a wonderful place. It helped me to know that my uncle that passed away 3 years ago is watching over my baby. Some books that i have read that helped me get through this sad time are "Help, Comfort & Hope after Losing Your Baby in Pregnancy or the First Year" by Hannah Lothrop and "Hannah's Hope" by Jennifer Saake. Both these books have been a blessing to me, the first one describes what you are going through and what to expect physically and emotionally. The 2nd talked about Hannah from the Bible and her barrenness. They both encouraged me that what we are feeling is completely normal and its okay to cry and mourn this baby. Just take care of yourself, accept offers of help, and keep talking, it helps.