I am 8 weeks pregnant. Three days ago we found out that our baby has no heartbeat and the doctor has assured us that there is no sign of life whatsoever. He has sent me home to await a miscarriage. Maybe this was Gods way of giving me a little time with my precious baby. I have been rocking and singing to him. However, as far as a miscarriage, I am experiencing little signs of such. Has anybody out there ever been sent home to await the actual miscarriage, because all I'm hearing is the most doctors would have taken action right away. How healthy can this be? At such an early stage of pregnancy, did my child feel anything? The baby was the size of a seven and a half week baby. At night, I can hardly close my eyes before I hear my crying child. I long to hold him so. Any advise or words of encouragement?
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Carrying a child thats not alive
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Posts: 3 (03/16/04 20:35:08) |
Hi blue. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. In nov. of 2002 I was diagnosed to what is called a "missed abortion" and that is what your was too. My doctor also sent me home to see if my body would miscarry as well, but didnt, so I had a D&C. It has been a little over a year and I am pregnant again, very worried but trying to be happy. I just dont want this to happen again. If you need to talk more you can e mail me at cowgirlup78@msn.com. Again im sorry you had to go through. It was the hardest I have gone through a well. Take care
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mom2kelsey |
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Posts: 10 (10/07/06 09:24:21) |
Hello Ladies and let me first say how sorry I am for your loss. My daughter was still born at 22 weeks in Aug. 05 and in Dec. 05 I had what was termed a "chemical pregnancy". I am now pregnant again...about 6 weeks now. I have noticed this week though that my pregnancy symptoms are a lot less noticable than last week and I'm afraid that my hcg levels are dropping and something has happened to the baby. Last week my breasts were super tender and I had to pee all the time....this week not so much. My 1st doctor visit isn't for another 2 weeks. I'm not spotting or having any pain. Did you experience a decrease in these symptoms as well? Is it possible to misscarry and not bleed or have any pain? Thanks for sharing your stories!!
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Posts: 6 (07/11/07 13:47:16) |
I misscarried at 8 wks. 5 days and the day that i found out i got a d&c the next morning. You can pass the baby through naturaly but sometime it all doens't come out and you can get sick and i think it would be torture to have to see that come out of you. I bleed all the way from the beginning of my pregnancy. WHen you miscarry you bleed and i heard sometimes you don't you just smell a foul odor.
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Posts: 1 (10/11/07 22:02:12) |
I lost my baby at 16 weeks. I was sent home and told that m/c would happen. It didn't and I had to have a D&E.
You can get an infection if you do not have a m/c in a certain amount of time. Best wishes in what you decide. I am so sorry for your loss. Take care, Jen
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